Guard Your Words

Develop greater awareness of what you say, repeat, share, and pass along—and how everyday speech can affect your heart and relationships.

Recognize Hidden Harm

Identify the impact of backbiting, gossiping, overhearing private conversations, invading privacy, and other actions we may not always recognize as spiritually harmful.

Everyday Application

Reflect on real-life situations involving family, friendships, group chats, community spaces, and daily conversations.

About the Course

Have you ever wondered… 💭 What if guarding your tongue is only part of the picture? 💭 Is it permissible to look into someone’s home when passing by and noticing an open window or garage? 💭 What about hearing a private conversation that you were never meant to hear? 💭 When does sharing something about another person become backbiting? 💭 What about joking, complaining, warning someone, or simply “venting”? 💭 Are there things we casually say, hear, or look at that we don’t realize we are accountable for? Join Ustadha Shamira Chothia Ahmed for an informal, sisters-only series of reflections and practical applications from The Prohibitions of the Tongue (Maharim al-Lisan) by Imam Muhammad Mawlud رحمه الله—the same scholar whose Purification of the Heart we have been studying. This is not a cover-to-cover study of the text. Instead, we will reflect on selected teachings and explore how they apply to our everyday lives, relationships, conversations, and interactions. The goal is not simply to know what to avoid, but to become more mindful of how we speak, listen, observe, and engage with others.

What you'll learn

Recognizing Backbiting in Everyday Conversation

Explore when talking about another person can become backbiting—even when the conversation feels harmless, humorous, or justified.

Guarding What We Hear and See

Reflect on the responsibility we carry when it comes to overhearing private conversations, looking into private spaces, and exposing ourselves to what was not intended for us.

Speaking With Greater Awareness

Learn to recognize situations where joking, venting, complaining, warning others, or sharing information may require greater care and discernment.

Rooted in Classical Scholarship: Reflect on selected teachings from Imam Muhammad Mawlud’s Maharim al-Lisan and their relevance to contemporary life.

Learn at Your Own Pace: All sessions are recorded for you to revisit anytime in your student portal.

Designed for Every Stage: Whether you’re new to these teachings or revisiting them, this series will help you bring greater awareness and intention to your everyday words and interactions.

Your Teacher: Ustadha Shamira

Ustadha Shamira Chothia Ahmed is passionate about educating and empowering Muslim women to grow in knowledge and closeness to Allah ﷻ. Born and raised in California’s Central Valley, she graduated as valedictorian before briefly pursuing pre-med studies at Georgetown University. Her heart was soon drawn to sacred knowledge, and she began her ‘alimah studies at Dar-ul-Uloom Mu’eenal Islam in South Africa, completing the five-year intensive program at Ja’mia Al-Imam Muhammad Zakariyya in Bradford, UK—one of the first and most renowned Islamic universities for women. She furthered her studies in Damascus, Syria, where she received an ijāzah in Tajwīd of the Ḥafṣ recitation from the late eminent Syrian scholar, Shaykh Ḥasan al-Kurdī. She later earned a Master’s degree in Demographics and Social Analysis from UC Irvine, focusing on Muslim-American identity formation. In 2005, she taught Hanafi fiqh for women at the Zaytuna Institute in California and has since taught across North America. She trained under Mufti Abdur Rahman Ibn Yusuf Mangera in women’s fiqh and assisted in the preparation of Al-Fiqh al-Akbar Explained. Alongside her teaching, she is also a certified birth doula and lactation educator, offering spiritual and practical support to women in their childbearing years. She is the founder of Her Sacred Path, a global initiative dedicated to spiritually empowering women through classes, mentorship, and community, and the co-founder of the Rahmah Foundation, which has served women’s education in the Bay Area for nearly two decades. A wife and mother of five, she enjoys spending time with her family, fitting in a strength workout when she can, and dreaming of having more time to read.

Series Details:

📅 Weekly on Saturdays (begins Saturday, September 26, 2026) ⏰ Time: 9:15 AM – 10:15 AM PST 💻 Format: Live online via Zoom 🎥 Recordings: All live sessions will be recorded and made available through for sisters who cannot attend live. 🤍 For Sisters only 📚 Enrollment & Pricing: Free 📚 What Your Enrollment Includes: ~ Live weekly reflections and discussions ~ Access to all session recordings through HSP Thinkific ~ Selected teachings from The Prohibitions of the Tongue ~ Practical applications and everyday examples ~ A sisters-only space for learning and reflection ✨ No prior study of the text is required. If you have any questions, please don’t hesitate to contact us at [email protected] — we would be happy to assist you!

Become More Mindful of What You Say, Hear & Share

Our spiritual lives are shaped not only by the major choices we make, but by the everyday words, conversations, and interactions we often overlook. Join us as we reflect on how to guard our tongues, honor the privacy and dignity of others, and bring greater awareness and adab into our daily lives. Free for all!