The Spiritually Empowered Wife

This class has been absolutely incredible! I’ve been struggling to connect and understand my husband of 11 years since day one. I even tried therapy with a Muslim therapist for months, but it didn’t help — every time I tried to ‘just communicate’ it turned into fights. I had given up, but this course showed me I simply didn’t know how to communicate.   The list of what makes men feel disrespected, the examples of mothering, the duʿās and dhikr — all of it gave me practical tools I can actually use. I love that the duʿās are already written out, so I know exactly what to ask Allah for.   What makes this course stand out is that it’s not just Qur’anic verses and hadiths, but also real-life tips, insights into men’s psychology, and even wisdom from other relationship experts. Ustadha’s teaching style makes everything come alive.   My mindset has shifted completely — like a full 360 — realizing Allah comes first, recognizing my own faults, and learning what not to say. I truly wish I had found this class ages ago.”

This course opened my eyes to how much I was hurting myself and my marriage without realizing it. The reset of seeing marriage as working towards Jannah together has been huge for me. I loved the breakout sessions, learning from other sisters’ experiences, and I’m so impressed with Ustadha’s teaching. Respect and tone are still a struggle, but now I feel hopeful and motivated to grow.

Ustadha Shamira has a rare gift—she speaks to the heart with honesty, warmth, and so much wisdom. Whether she's offering advice before marriage or helping sisters navigate the complexities within it, she brings a depth and clarity that’s both empowering and deeply rooted in faith. In both “Marry Him” and “RAISE Your Game,” she shares practical tools to truly raise the bar in your marriage. Her words feel like they’re coming from someone who truly gets it—someone who’s walked with women, listened deeply, and knows the real struggles we face. She doesn’t just teach; she uplifts and gently challenges you to reflect, grow, and step into your role with intentionality and grace. There’s something incredibly grounding about her approach. She brings the deen into every conversation in a way that feels natural and lived—not forced. You leave her talks with clarity, comfort, and renewed purpose. I’m truly grateful for her voice in this space. May Allah continue to bless her efforts and allow her to reach even more hearts, Ameen

I love Ustadha Shamira's approach in bringing love and intimacy to our marriage in a fun and engaging way while being mindful about our deen and putting Allah first above everyone and everything.  Her acronym R.A.I.S.E teaches you and to raise your game on multiple levels to deepen connection with your spouse, express your feeling with love and respect and use your feminine charm to win his heart.  I recommend Ustadha Shamira's courses to anyone marrying soon or has been married for 30 years or more. We are all yearning for true connections with our spouse in a way to please Allah subhanahu wa Taa'la. I can't wait for her upcoming book! May Allah grant her Tawfiq in her blessed journey and accept all her efforts! Ameen

Ustadha Shamira's "RAISE Your Marriage" lectures are truly impactful! I first heard her speak at the Darussalam Seminary's Annual Retreat in Chicago and I've been implementing her advice ever since.  She has an incredible knack for connecting with people, especially the youth, by addressing the real-world needs and trials of modern relationships. Her insights are so relevant, and her teaching style is fantastic—she even brings in humor and real-life stories which makes everything more relatable and enjoyable.  Anyone seeking genuine, practical, and insightful guidance on marriage will gain so much from her courses. In shāʾ Allāh.